five tips for coping with holiday stress

#1: Create time for mini check-in’s with yourself throughout the day. As cliche as it sounds, it’s helpful to “name it, to tame it” by checking in with yourself and working to label your feelings. Feelings are meant to be felt after all.  Keep in mind that...

why everyone is so obsessed with deep-breathing

Ever felt annoyed when someone said “just take a deep breath”? ⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I have.⁣ Yet, our breath can be our biggest ally. ⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Did you know breathing is one of the only functions of the body that is both involuntary and...

the perfectionism puzzle

A piece of the perfectionism puzzle is often an underlying fear of what others think. ⁣The fear of being judged, criticized or shame.⁣ We tend to struggle with perfectionism most in areas were we feel vulnerable to shame. ⁣Why? Because as humans we are hard wired for...

the art of self-compassion

Self-compassion isn’t that different than having compassion for others. ⁣My favorite definition of self-compassion is treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion as you would a dear loved one. There are 3 basic elements of mindful self-compassion:...